Simbaline64 Anything but ordinary

About me and who I'm looking for

About me:

Until recently it hadn’t crossed my mind to think about the way I look. I am….just me. The facts: age 44, height 5’7" 128 pounds…evidently that’s uncommon. LOL

Jeans during the day then an evening gown for a ball at night, that’s me. I can weld and I can waltz. Ok, I really can’t weld but it sounds good. Although I CAN use most any power tool…preferably pink. In college my best friend’s dad called us “multi-talented superior women on the move.” Guess that sums it up.

I am fiercely independent yet love to pamper and be pampered…a true Gemini.

My favorite way to relax on a beautiful day is to give my horses a spa. They love it and so do I. To have fun, just jump on and fly. The best days are when the sky is bright and my greatest challenge is deciding what to do…hiking, mountain biking, swimming, snorkeling, fishing, gardening, and of course horseback riding.

In dreary weather I prefer to stay inside, watch an action or suspense movie, or continue on my quest of learning to play a great game of pool.

It has always been my understanding that each of us is responsible for our own happiness. Not depending on someone else for your self worth is essential. Yet desire and yen for another person is also essential. Independence blended with tenderness is powerful…sensual. Am I asking too much?

I'm looking for:

I am looking for a guy who understands that his self worth does not depend on me. He does not need me to hold his hand daily. He knows that my daughter comes first and he gives me space to be with my child. Yet he loves that I can be totally immersed in him when she is with her dad every other week. I am looking for a guy who enjoys his space when I have my child and is thrilled to see me the the week when I’m available. Someday a man will come along who will be introduced to my child but until then I’m content to live separate lives….parent and partner.